Playdates, Kids, and Dogs: How to Keep Everyone Safe and Happy

With the Summer holidays in full swing we know playdates are a highlight for kids but what about your dog? With a little planning, you can ensure everyone has a blast while staying safe. Here’s how to set up a fun, stress-free playdate for kids and your four-legged family member!

Set the Ground Rules—For Everyone!

Before the doorbell rings, gather the kids (and any visiting parents) for a quick “house rules” chat:

• No making the dog part of the game. Dogs shouldn’t be chased, dressed up, or included in wild play. This keeps everyone safe and prevents your dog from getting overwhelmed or overexcited

  
  

• Let the dog come to you. Teach kids to invite the dog over and wait for them, rather than running up to say hello. A calm, gentle approach is best

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• Inside voices and gentle hands. Loud noises and rough play can stress dogs out. Remind everyone to keep things calm when the dog is around

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• Respect the dog’s space. If the dog is in their crate, behind a stair gate, or chewing a toy, that area is off-limits to kids

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• No face-to-face contact. Kids should avoid putting their faces close to the dog’s or staring directly into their eyes, as this can make dogs uncomfortable

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Control and Management: Your Safety Toolkit

• Use barriers: Stair gates or closed doors can separate the dog from the play zone if things get too rowdy

• Crate time: If your dog is crate-trained, give them a cosy retreat with a favourite chew or enrichment toy while the kids play

• Lead up: For dogs who get excited or nervous, keep them on a lead attached to your belt/hold onto so you can supervise interactions closely

  
  

Prepare Your Dog for Success

• Walk before the playdate: A tired dog is a calmer dog! Take your pup for a walk or play a game of fetch before guests arrive to burn off extra energy.

  
  

• Enrichment items: Have a stuffed Kong, puzzle toy, or long-lasting chew ready to keep your dog occupied and happy while the kids play

  
  

• Know your dog: If your dog is skittish or protective, keep initial playdates short and closely supervised. It’s okay to keep the dog separate if needed

  
  

Safe Hellos and Goodbyes

• Teach the kids: Show them how the dog likes to be stroked and to pet the dog gently on the side or chest—never over the head

• Supervise all interactions: An adult should always be present when kids and dogs are together, no matter how friendly everyone seems

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Loopypaws Pro Tips

• Check in with visiting parents: Ask if their child is comfortable around dogs and share your house rules in advance

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• Keep playdates short and sweet: Especially for your dog’s first few experiences.

• Praise good behavior: Reward your dog for calm, friendly interactions—and give the kids a high-five for following the rules!

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Playdates can be safe and fun for everyone with a little planning and clear boundaries. At Loopypaws, we believe happy kids and happy dogs make for the best memories—so set those rules, manage the environment, and let the good times roll!

Happy playdating from Loopypaws Dog Training!