The Magic Age: When Are Kids Ready for a Puppy?

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Aug 5, 2025
3 min read

Thinking about adding a puppy to your family? As a mum of 2 kids who wanted a puppy non stop after our previous dog Zira sadly passed away I knew it was a hard choice to make. At the time Zira passed away Ivy was only 2 and half years old, as much as I missed having a dog in the house I knew that we weren't ready for another dog especially a puppy at that time. It was extra weird for me as I have always had at least one dog in the house and as a dog trainer everyone assumes you have a dog.

We finally decided to get a puppy (Chilli) in the summer holidays before Ivy turned 5 years old, it was the perfect time to spend time as a family getting her comfortable in our home.

I am so glad we waited as Ivy and Chilli are the best of friends and will get to grow up together.

One of the top questions I get is: What’s the best age for my child to get a puppy? Let’s dig into the facts, the fun, and the realities—so you can make the best choice for your whole family.

Most experts and experienced dog lovers agree: the sweet spot for bringing a puppy into a family is when your youngest child is around 5 or 6 years old

Younger children (under 4 or 5) are still learning about boundaries, gentleness, and impulse control. Puppies are adorable but fragile, and little ones can unintentionally hurt or frighten them or get scratched or nipped in return
School-aged children are more likely to understand the difference between a puppy and a plush toy, follow safety rules, and even help with basic dog care

That said, every child is different! Some 6-year-olds are calm and responsible, while some 10-year-olds might still be too excitable for a puppy’s liking Always consider your child’s maturity and your family’s lifestyle before making the leap.

Who’s Really Responsible? (Spoiler: It’s Still the Grown-Ups!)

It’s a classic scene: your child promises to feed, walk, and clean up after the new puppy forever. But let’s be honest—adults will always carry the ultimate responsibility for a dog’s well being.

Feeding and cleaning up: Kids can help with age-appropriate tasks (pouring biscuit, filling water bowls, collecting toys), but grown-ups must supervise and double-check everything
Training and exercise: Children can join in on walks and training games, but adults need to lead the way, especially during the energetic puppy phase.
Cleaning up after accidents: This is a great teachable moment, but don’t expect a 6-year-old to handle all the messes!

If your child is already helpful with chores, shows empathy, and is genuinely interested in caring for animals, that’s a great sign they’re ready for a puppy partner.

Previous Experience: Does It Matter?

If your family has already had pets—or your child has spent time with dogs—they’ll likely be more prepared for the realities of puppy life But if this is your first dog, consider:

Trying a “test run”: Offer to dog-sit for a friend or volunteer at a shelter. See how your child interacts with dogs and handles simple tasks
Adopting an adult dog: Sometimes, a calm, socialized adult dog is a better match for families with very young children

Loopypaws Pro Tips for a Happy Start

Supervise all puppy-and-kid interactions. Puppies and children both need guidance to stay safe and happy!
Teach gentle touch and respect. Practice how to pet, play, and give the puppy space.
Set realistic expectations. Puppies nip, chew, and have accidents—prepare your child for the not-so-glamorous side of puppy parenthood.
Make it a family project. Puppy care is a team effort, and everyone can join the fun.

In Summary

The best age for a child to get a puppy is usually around 5 or 6, but every family is unique Make sure your child is ready for the responsibility (with plenty of grown-up backup), and remember: the journey from puppyhood to best friend is full of learning, laughter, and love.

Ready to start your adventure? Loopypaws Dog Training is here to help every step of the way—paws, kids, and all!